Laila Nasheeba

The Lawful and Unlawful – Birth Control and Abortion!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 19, 2018

A man came to the Prophet saying, “I have a slave girl. I desire what men desire, but I do not want her to become pregnant, so I practice coitus interruptus with her. The Jews say that this is a minor form of burying your children alive”. The Prophet said, “The Jews are wrong. If Allah wishes to create a child, you cannot prevent it,” ( Abu Daoud, Ibn Majah; al-Nisai, and al-Tirmidhi.)

Lecture speaks of the permissibility of Birth control and its conditions. Also the Impermissibility of Abortion unless the woman’s life is in danger


The Lawful and Unlawful – Relations Between the Spouses!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 18, 2018

“From the front or the back, but avoid the anus and intercourse during menstruation.”

Lecture details what is forbidden for the spouses to do sexually with one another.

The Lawful and Unlawful – Polygamy Fornication and Temporary Marriage!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 16, 2018

“Vile women are for vile men, and vile men are for vile women; virtuous women are for virtuous men and virtuous men are for virtuous women.” (24:26)

Lecture speaks of how fornicators are not lawful to marry. Nor is is lawful to enter into a marriage just for sex. Nor lawful is temporary marriage. However islam allows a man to have up to four wives on the condition that he can provide for them and be just with his time.

The Lawful and Unlawful – People forbidden to Marry!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 14, 2018

“What is haram by reason of genealogy is haram by reason of fosterage.”

Lecture speaks of the men and women who are unlawful to marry.

The Lawful and Unlawful – Seeking Marriage Proposals

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 12, 2018

Lecture speaks of the rules or conditions of seeking proposal for marriage. Islam requires everything to be done through the woman’s guardian. Islam allows the parties to see how one another looks meaning face. Anything else should be from the women or men of the family to see.

The Lawful and Unlawful – Interactions between the Sexes Exceptions!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 11, 2018

Abu Usayd al-Sa’adi invited the Prophet and his Companions to his wedding. The food was prepared and served by none other than his wife, Umm Usayd. She had soaked some dates in milk in a stone pot overnight. When the Prophet had finished his meal, she mashed the dates and brought the drink to him.”

Lecture details how even though Islam closes the door to what can lead to unlawful relations between women and men it is still a practical way of life. Being so there are exceptions to the interactions as long as certain conditions exist. For example a woman can serve her husbands guests as long as he is present and she is dressed properly. A woman can sit at a table with men as long as she is dressed properly and more.

The Lawful and Unlawful – Interaction Between the Sexes!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 10, 2018

“And do not come near zina; indeed, it is an abomination and an evil way, (17:32),

Islam closes the door to zina by not allowing the sexes to interact alone. This is for our protection it is not as a punishment

The Lawful and Unlawful – Positions of Power!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 9, 2018

“The Prophet old me, Abdur Rahman, do not ask for governorship, for if you are appointed to it without asking, you will be helped, while if you are appointed to it at your request, you alone will be held responsible.

Lecture speaks of how we should not seek out jobs or power but instead allow the people to seek us out for them. Also one must be qualified for such positions otherwise they will be punished by allah

The Lawful and Unlawful – Striking the Balance between Work and Worship!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 8, 2018

“It is no sin for youto seek the bounty of your Lord (during the hajj)….” (2:198)

Islam teaches that we must learn to strike the balance between worship and work. Allah wants us to enjoy the good things in life here but in turn to not allow seeking those things to cause you to not fulfil your obligations to him. On the other hand he wants us to remember him but at the same time to fulfill our obligations to ourselves and others. Thus – Strike the balance!

The Lawful and Unlawful – Industrial Jobs!

Posted in islam by lailanasheeba on September 6, 2018

“…And We send down iron, in which there is great strength and benefits for mankind….”

Lecture speaks of how every prophet worked to provide for his family. Also the virtues of industrial jobs. Detailed too are the type of industrial jobs that are forbidden in Islam.

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